Lira Gjika explains why parents are the reason children barely return to school after the holidays
2025-01-06 11:00:02
TiranaPost
If you had a hard time getting your child ready for school or kindergarten this morning, the reason could be you.
Even if the child cried at home or at the school door, you and what you said during these days may be responsible.
Lira Gjika explains that children's anxiety about returning to school is related to the words their parents have said these days.
Sentences like: "Too bad the holidays are over! Who's going back to work? Who invented work?" have a bad effect on the child.
Here's what Lira Gjika says:
"Children see you, they hear you and they try to
They will also do the same as you, because you are their role model and everything you do is only good in the eyes of the child.
Thus, by expressing sadness at the end of vacations and holidays, you encourage boredom and boredom in the child.
These holidays are over. You adults, you should be careful with the words or exclamations that you use. Children see you, hear you and try to do the same, because you are their model and everything you do is only good in the eyes of the child. Thus, by expressing the annoyance of the end of the holidays and festivities, you encourage annoyance and boredom in the child. Annoyance and boredom activate
"The void. The void prevents a person from creating continuity and connecting events. If you are not careful, you will tell the child that just as we get tired from work, we also get tired from holidays, so they should be alternated, so that we can enjoy both. Especially since we have other holidays ahead of us to celebrate. This way of behaving avoids boredom and boredom, which are the main factors of human failure in life," writes Lira Gjika.
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