From the decision to become a single mother to the men of the family who complete the father figure to her son, Anila Basha confesses
2024-10-04 13:01:49
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In a podcast conversation with Mira Kazhani, Anila Basha confessed her life. From youth, school years, to life's challenges, her and her father's illness and the decision to become a mother alone.
Anila confessed how all her life she had admired women who breastfed babies and if she had never dreamed of herself in a white dress, motherhood was something she wanted to experience.
As she tells, with the arrival of Aris in her life, everything changed for her.
"While we were running to catch the news, we had forgotten that we were also running against time. I had never imagined myself a bride with a white veil. I was walking there and that love song was being sung. I didn't imagine it. Not even dreamed of. It hasn't come. It didn't happen. But what about being a mother. That part when you take out the breast and breastfeed the child, and the love and empathy that I have seen all the mothers who did this everywhere. I looked at them with a kind of adoration. It was extraordinary. Then when I tried it myself...", said Anila Basha.
Anila Basha, in the ZemeMiraPodcast, also answered the brave question: Does the son ask about the father figure?
"Until now, he has not done this, but I am sure he will start doing it. He understands very well that dad goes to other children to take them to daycare. It's not like he mentions the word dad. It does not say, but it is not that there is any recipe. There are many people who speak in different ways and at different times. Or they guide you, you have to go to a psychologist. How should you talk to your child about this? Aris is not alone. It is surrounded by people at every moment. Especially my brother, my uncle, he loves his uncle very much, he has completed this male figure at home. Rest then at my sister's. My sister's two children, boys, always pick her up and take her everywhere," said Anila Basha.
Watch the full conversation:
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