How can body language help you understand if you can trust someone?
Regardless of the conversation or situation, people can not always control the messages conveyed by their body. Reading body language can help you get to know people better before you connect with them.
A Bright Side article reveals what can be hidden behind a few gestures.
1. Avoiding eye contact or rubbing your eyes when hiding something.
If you notice that the person in front of you is constantly looking in the upper left or right corner of the eye, he may be lying. However, do not confuse looking down with looking sideways. People usually look down when they try to remember something.
Most people are aware of this technique and try to avoid eye contact in the first place. For example, most experienced poker players rub their eyes during tricks to look as natural as possible in action. Healthy eye contact periodically wanders in different directions during a conversation, along with expressions to respond to information.
2. Always stay on the phone to avoid confrontation.
If you see someone's eyes focused on the screen all the time, it may indicate that he is afraid of confrontation or worried that messages from another person may appear at any time. It can be disturbing if your partner or friend suddenly develops this habit.
3. They tend to lean towards you during conversations.
Generally, people or couples tend to lean towards each other through the body, legs or head during conversations. If you notice a change in their gestures and the way they respond to your questions, it could be a sign that they are hiding something.
Or it could also mean that someone is not really interested in the conversation and would prefer to be somewhere else.
4. They have crossed arms and legs to defend themselves.
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6. Zëri i tyre ndryshon ndërsa flasin me ju.
Pay attention to voice changes during conversations. Liars often switch from normal voices to a louder voice than honest people. Although the loud tone or change of voice does not guarantee that they are lying, a loud voice accompanied by other signs mentioned above can help you decide if you should trust someone.