What to consider if you want to get back with your ex
Can you give love a second chance and get back with your ex? The subject is quite delicate especially if he broke your heart and you needed time to recover.
No matter how painful the breakup may have been, there is always a reason why the relationship ends. Be it betrayal, dissatisfaction of one of the two or the end of feeling.
They say the heart cannot be commanded, but is that really a good idea?
Tips not to make mistakes
Breathe first and don't make hasty decisions. Seeing him made your heart skip a beat and if his declaration of love was powerful, that doesn't mean he should be given a second chance. Take the time you need to think it through and assess the situation.
Think again why it's over
If everything had been perfect your relationship would not have ended. So it's worth asking yourself why it ended. The reasons that led to the end of the relationship may now be just a memory, but they risk repeating themselves once you get back into your relationship routine. In this case, the risk of saying goodbye again - with all the consequences it brings - is quite high. So ask yourself if you are really capable of going further and considering this.
Reflect on the reasons for the approach
A second chance at love is possible, but the foundations to resume a relationship where you left off must be strong. Are you sure your ex didn't just come back to you out of boredom or loneliness? If you get the impression that he only came back to you because he has no other options, walk away to avoid another disappointment.
Be honest with yourself
A second chance at love can only work in one case: if you and your ex worked on yourselves, while you were apart, somehow solving the problems that were there before. Otherwise, despite the initial euphoria, the new relationship can end again and in the worst way.