Do you love her or just like her? Here's how you can find out
If you are asked to rethink your college days, there will be at least one person with whom you thought you were madly in love but later realized it was nothing but attraction. This is something that happens to almost everyone and it becomes difficult to distinguish between the two.
Here are some ways that will help you discover if it is love or just attraction and that will save you from unnecessary hassle.
Love, at first glance, is a myth
While some of you may disagree, the truth is that what we know as love at first sight is simply attraction.
Look at it this way. What is the first thing you see in a person? It should be his or her appearance. And appearance can not be a criterion for falling in love. So in most cases when you see a person and your heart starts beating, it is attraction. Love takes time to create and you can not consider as love a feeling you have seeing a person once.
Love is synonymous with care
If the other person's suffering does not bother you, but you like to be near him, there is no need to tell you that it is nothing more than attraction.
Love requires care and if the latter is lacking, there is no chance that you are in love with that person, no matter how many perfect explanations you can offer
You miss only when you are alone
If you are out with your friends and your special person does not cross your mind at all and only when you return home alone after a long day do you miss it, is a clear indication of attraction.
Love does not ask about time or place. If you love a person, he or she is on your mind all the time. If you find yourself thinking about a person only when you are alone or when you are upset, you need to think about your feelings once before calling it love.