8 suggestions to extend the life of your marriage
Coexistence is difficult. Even she with the man she loves and that until you lived together you were in complete harmony. So before starting cohabitation, whether married or not, couples should consider some rules.
They have to create their own calendar and both agree on it. Agenda and calendar also to determine who will use the toilet first thing in the morning.
They had to share things. 56% of married people, in one study, admitted that sharing household chores was one of the most important things for a happy marriage. According to the whims and abilities, everyone can do what they like best.
They need to talk about money. And above all to always be honest with the spending of money, not lying "where they took it".
They need to learn how to adapt to their partner's bad habits. Leaving clothes messy, talking loudly and a long list of annoying behaviors to certain people. One way is for the one who does these behaviors to try to give up little by little. The other way, the one who annoys, should start ignoring them.
They should appreciate each other’s presence and have a ritual. Couples who perform certain rituals together get more pleasure from the relationship. As a movie together, a visit to the Church together.
Find time to stay alone with yourself. It is not necessary to do everything together, always. He needs time and himself and she too. They will be more homesick when they meet.
Set rules for invitations to make at home. They need to agree on who can come, when is the ideal time, and how long they can stay.
Problems do not always have to be solved at bedtime. Some relationship experts have suggested that couples do not sleep bored with each other. The mindset has changed. If a break is needed, you can clarify tomorrow when you have fallen asleep.
* Bright Side article was adapted in Albanian by Tiranapost.al