Couples therapists have seen and heard it all: the good and the bad, the ugly of relationships and the beautiful.
Through their years of professional experience, they are able to determine the language that unites couples and the language that separates them.
What phrases do therapists never say to couples?
"You always", or "You never"
You always make me feel...
Okay, maybe we shouldn't be together...
You must do this!
If you loved me, you would/wouldn't do this.
No one will ever love you like I do.
Calm down!
My husband would never have done that.
