3 things you should definitely discuss with your partner before you get married
From choosing the best place for your honeymoon to determining your wedding dress, everyone discusses even the smallest thing with your future spouse. While it is always fun and exciting to discuss all of these things with your partner, what is important is to talk about life.
Here are 3 things you should discuss with your partner before you get married:
While some of you may find it very difficult to discuss money before marriage, what you can not deny is the fact that it is an important part of life. Discuss how you will handle finances, whether or not you will share the bills. The more you discuss, the clearer things will be.
If you are both working and your job does not allow you to work from home, it becomes important to discuss who will be moving. Although it can be a difficult decision, it is important to understand it in advance so that neither of you makes a hasty decision after marriage. Evaluate the pros and cons, do your calculations and make a wise decision. Make sure neither of you does it just for the sake of it, do it for the happiness and comfort of yourself and each other.
Sharing the house with the parents
Like everything else, it is important to discuss whether you will both move into a new home or share the home with your father-in-law. Think deeply, look at what works for you and accordingly decide for yourself and your partner. Most people want privacy and may want to move into a new home and some may want to enjoy family time. So instead of arguing, try to understand the other person's views, evaluate them, and then disclose your own.