Avoid these five types of people. They hinder and hurt you
1. Jealous people are not good for you
You have to see your work and your personal things, you are the only one who has the knowledge, the right and the ability to do the best for your life. The same is true for anyone you know. If you notice that someone neglects their own needs or mismanages their resources, mainly because they are too interested in your affairs, you should remove them. They're getting further and further out of their way, and since the fall instinct is to grab onto anyone you can to escape, you need to make sure they don't grab onto you.
2. Anyone who gossips
These guys are just awful to be around. In a sense, there is a sense of superiority that can be found in gossiping. No one is a better person because they exaggerate the works of others, when they are not there to protect their name or image. Don't give in to the sick addiction of spreading rumours.
3. People who don't stop complaining to save their lives
Focusing on the negative elements of a bad situation is boring and doesn't help you solve anything. The person who complains the most is usually the least productive. It actually makes sense, they don't have much to offer and all their energy and effort goes into reminding those foolish enough to listen that things are getting worse and worse. Life has a healthy amount of setbacks and challenges, which build character. This type of person is usually very dependent, not strong-willed and rarely competent. These types depend on others for their survival, and have neither the goals nor the means to make it worth the time and patience spent on them.
4. The person who refuses responsibility and blames others
This type of guy will not only waste your time, cause and magnify conflicts, harm your personal life, slow your growth and limit the diversity of your experiences; it also has serious potential to get you into a lot of trouble. A person who believes he can escape the consequences of his actions is lying to himself. One of the main factors in their life is to sacrifice anyone they can. Do you really want to be punished by the irresponsibility of another?
5. The manipulator
This type of personality is the worst and usually the hardest to do anything about. He lies, tricks, schemes, threatens, and anything else he deems necessary to carry out the secret plan. These types of guys go unnoticed for a long time before they integrate into your life in one way or another. To remove them requires strong will and patience. Some help from friends would be a blessing. Every liar, manipulator uses isolation to his advantage. They try to trap you, making you as dependent on them as they can. Try to have as many people around as possible. The more eyes that see the situation, the less success they will have in their plans.
*Originally published on bota.al