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'I want to sleep with you!' How to respond to this request made by the child

'I want to sleep with you!' How to respond to this request made by the

Children love to sleep in a bed with their parents, and not without reason. Lira Gjika, in a detailed post on social networks, explains where this desire of the child comes from and how the parents should respond. "Go to your bed!" Or, "You have your bed!" they are not enough.

'I want to sleep with you!' How to respond to this request made by the

'I want to sleep with you!' How to respond to this request made by the
Lira Gjika

"The child looks at mom and dad, who sleep together and so he or she will sleep with them. Adults say: - you have your own bed, not to sleep with mom and dad. And with that, the explanation ends, without thinking that the child, in addition to being afraid, will also know why the parents sleep together and tries with all his possibilities to be able to make the adult explain something to him. But the adults get annoyed and fall short, or take him to their bed or run away and leave him alone. The attitude of adults, who do not explain to the child why he should sleep alone, but only claim from him, to implement or accept the actions of adults, is not the best that can be done. It would be good for the adult to patiently talk to the child about sleep and growth as a process that we can not avoid. For Lucky, no one takes the trouble or comes to mind, to tell the child why dad and mom sleep together. They sleep together because they make love, to give birth to their children and to make the family even more beautiful and joyful. When he or she grows up, he or she will act like mom and dad, find the girl or boy of their dreams, and build his or her family. The foundation on which the family is built is love. People live safely when they love each other and thus remove fear and boredom from themselves. When fear and boredom overwhelm man, man is not capable of doing beautiful things and loving his family. Here are a few words that can be said to a child, why mom and dad sleep together ", writes Lira Gjika. to give birth to their children and to make the family even more beautiful and joyful. When he or she grows up, he or she will act like mom and dad, find the girl or boy of their dreams, and build his or her family. The foundation on which the family is built is love. People live safely when they love each other and thus remove fear and boredom from themselves. When fear and boredom overwhelm man, man is not capable of doing beautiful things and loving his family. Here are a few words that can be said to a child, why mom and dad sleep together ", writes Lira Gjika. to give birth to their children and to make the family even more beautiful and joyful. When he or she grows up, he or she will act like mom and dad, find the girl or boy of their dreams, and build his or her family. The foundation on which the family is built is love. People live safely when they love each other and thus remove fear and boredom from themselves. When fear and boredom overwhelm man, man is not capable of doing beautiful things and loving his family. Here are a few words that can be said to a child, why mom and dad sleep together ", writes Lira Gjika. The foundation on which the family is built is love. People live safely when they love each other and thus remove fear and boredom from themselves. When fear and boredom overwhelm man, man is not capable of doing beautiful things and loving his family. Here are a few words that can be said to a child, why mom and dad sleep together ", writes Lira Gjika. The foundation on which the family is built is love. People live safely when they love each other and thus remove fear and boredom from themselves. When fear and boredom overwhelm man, man is not capable of doing beautiful things and loving his family. Here are a few words that can be said to a child, why mom and dad sleep together ", writes Lira Gjika.