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10 actions that totally ruin the first date

10 actions that totally ruin the first date

Let's be honest, the first date is not easy. Forget the word 'Be yourself'. At least the first meeting requires an introduction. One of life's most complex problems is finding the right balance.

Here are 10 totally weird things people often do on first dates.

1. Heading into food

Ok, you went out to eat, but you also went out to talk, to get to know each other better. It's still a good idea to maintain eye contact while listening, and it hasn't gone out of style. It is unacceptable to enter with mugs on your plate.

2. Acting like someone handed you a microphone and you're on a podium.

To avoid awkwardness on the first date, it is better not to talk about politics or religion. Make sure you don't overwhelm the other person while discussing something you're passionate about.

3. Hygiene

One person can learn a lot about another in the first seven seconds of a meeting. Most of us know the importance of maintaining good personal hygiene and dressing professionally, but sometimes we need a little push in the right direction.

4. Drinking like you're in a club.

On a first date, it's natural to have a drink or two to relax a bit. A great local beer would be great.

5. Behavior of a wingman (or wingwoman).

It is your right to leave a date if she or he has brought a sibling or friend with them. You don't even have to make an excuse and run away.

6. Mos i thuaj çfarë të hajë.

Nuk ka problem nëse dikush më thotë se çfarë të ha, edhe në një takim të parë. Problemi është do të më imponohet. Kur është vegan dhe shan mishin për shembull.

7. Kthimi i bisedës në një rrëfim.

Dëshira për t'i bërë përshtypje partnerit është arsyeja e zakonshme që individët flasin pa pushim për veten e tyre në takimin e parë.

8. Të sillesh si një maniak dashurie.

Shumë njerëz janë shumë hezitues ose të frikësuar për të shkuar kaq larg. Mos i pyet se kur do të ndalojnë përdorimin e Tinder tani që po takohen ekskluzivisht me ty. Mos pyet nëse ata janë të disponueshëm për të takuar prindërit e tu nesër mbrëma. Mos u sillni sikur keni qenë beqar për dhjetë vjet, edhe nëse keni qenë. Nuk duket mirë.

9. Të qenit me vetëbesim të tepërt

First dates can be nerve-wracking, but it's perfectly normal to feel a little nervous. Try to learn as much as possible about him, but do not show your intelligence on the first date. Keep a steady pace by going with the flow. Overconfidence will spoil your overall image.

10. Don't steal her first kiss

You will say goodbye and she is leaving. Don't kiss her without approval. If you don't want today, don't take it personally.